Slow and steady

The female orgasm is ever so elusive, but with some little tips just about any man can get a woman to the promise land.

The female orgasm is ever so elusive, but with some little tips just about any man can get a woman to the promise land. Here are some things you might be doing wrong that keeps her faking it.

1. Not enough foreplay

 

For women, sex is very much a mental thing and there is no better way to stimulate this part of her than giving her enough foreplay. Take your time in kissing, women like a bit of fire, biting, clawing, some assertive force to let her feel the passion. Head before penetration is never a bad idea. In fact, you should aim to have her so aroused that she will be literally pulling your dick into her pussy.

READ: Why Foreplay Matters (Especially for Women)

 

2. Changing position

 

I know the porn stars run through like ten positions in a twenty minute clip. That is because they are performing for viewers that need many forms of stimulation to masturbate. Women like rhythm and consistency in bed. Find that perfect position and keep up the good stroke in a steady tempo. Save the acrobatics, it isn’t necessary.

READ: 3 best positions to hit a woman’s g-spot and make her CUM

 

3. Going too slow

 

Yes, there is time for the whole ‘look into her eyes and make sweet love to her’, but no woman has come from a guy fucking her like she was made out of glass. You need to up that energy and fuck her like a cave man (try not to draw blood though). If in doubt, go watch an episode of Spartacus.

 

4. Not hitting her fetishes

 

It’s different for different women. Some want to be choked, some want to be spanked, some want to be called a dirty slut and get their hair pulled back. Most want a combination of all these things. So what are you waiting for? As men want a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets, women want a gentleman in the streets and a thug in the sheet.

READ: 12 amazing ways to bring sexy back into your relationship

 

5. Not letting her focus

 

The mental focus a woman needs to orgasm can only be compared the stillness of a Buddhist monk in deep meditation. As much as you can make sure the environment is conducive. While some women like the idea of being heard or even watched while they are fucking, most would rather just have the house to themselves so they can yell instructions.

 

6. You aren’t following orders

 

The male ego is prone to showing the woman who is boss and sometimes this makes it difficult for us to take instructions. I don’t care how much porn you have watches, book you have read, or women you have bedded. If she says faster, step on it. If she says just like that DO NOT change a thing…I repeat DO NOT change a thing.

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