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So my girlfriend and I have been dating for about 2 years.
She’s a student so it’s a distance relationship for now.
She wasn’t a student when we started dating and when she started schooling I was worried the distance would be a problem.
I live in a different state, so it’s about 4hrs by road to her school, due to the high rate of kidnapping along the highway I advised she comes 2 – 3 weeks instead of every week.
Now the issue we’re seriously facing now is an almost sexless relationship and it’s slowly getting worse.
Since the beginning of this year, I don’t think we’ve had sex upto 7 times in total.
Because she comes by weekend ( Friday evening and leaves on Sunday afternoon).
Friday she’s usually tired and I don’t want to stress her further so I let her be. Sometimes she comes visiting then her monthly visitor shows up and that’s a deal breaker so it has to be 2 or 3 weeks later.
She came visiting today and holy crap her flow just began this night! Last time we had sometime was 2 weeks ago, I’ll be traveling for about a month and this is the only time we have left.
She’s very worried and suggesting we try something new but everything she mentioned doesn’t make sense to me.
If it’s not sex then it’s not sex, I’m not into BJ that shiit doesn’t make me cum and I don’t even like it, am acting cool but deep down am frustrated.
I don’t cheat! Infact I can’t make love to someone I’m not emotionally involved with, so I can’t do Olosho or any random girl.
I need advice on how to survive times like this, if you’re in a distant relationship please how do you go about issues like this?
I will be in the comments section.
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